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Well, as I have added new photos (like this one taken
last month at a Chattanooga, Tennessee bookstore) to
my author web site the questions have started to come
in so I must 'fess up: yes, I am expecting a baby! My
first little one is scheduled to arrive around August 1.
I'm feeling fine and my husband and I are looking
forward to the adventure of parenthood.
Actually this is a good time to mention the baby because
this newsletter is about how we choose our careers. I've
been asked many times how I will deal with work once I
become a mother. I explain that the changes I've made
in my career these past couple of years have been
about doing "great work" (see feature article) but they
were also about preparing for this moment-- to be able
to work from home and spend the maximum amount of
time possible with my child. This is the distinction
between have a goal vs. having a vision. Having my
own business and writing books from home was the
goal, but being with my children was the vision. Goals
can take a long time to achieve-- it's taken me years to
get here-- but the vision is what sustains you. That's
what a powerful vision will do. So set great goals for
yourself, but don't forget to create a vision as well, one
that will constantly draw you to it.
Once you get there, appreciate the moment. People say
to me, "I bet you can't wait for the baby or for this or
for that, etc." Actually, yes I can. I believe the universe
won't give you more if you don't appreciate what you
already have. So right now all I want to do is be very
present, (especially when the baby kicks!) and feel that
I have been exquisitely blessed. May you have the same
good fortune in your life everyday.
Best wishes and be well. Sophfronia
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| Meet Veronica Chambers |
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Looking for a mentor, a role model? Don't limit yourself
to older friends and colleagues. As long as he or she is
doing what you want to do, a mentor can be younger
than you are. I met Veronica Chambers years ago when
I was a reporter at Time Inc. and she was a college
student interning there for the summer. We connected
and after she graduated I watched her bylines begin to
pop up in magazines such as "Esquire", "O, The Oprah
Magazine" and "Newsweek". Then, in 1996, she
published "Mama's Girl", a memoir. It was a beacon for
me, showing me there was something else out there, a
bigger, more challenging, writing forum and it was
within my reach. I realized I wanted to do what
Veronica was doing: writing books.
A few years later I began writing what would become
my first novel. When the work was slow and I got stuck,
Veronica was the one I asked for advice on how to get
going again. I also learned an interesting thing: she
wanted to do what I was doing, writing fiction! I'm
happy to report that our efforts have paid off. You know
about my novel. Veronica's first novel, "When Did You
Stop Loving Me" (published by Doubleday) is now
available in stores everywhere. It's a beautifully written
story of a girl being raised by her father (a magician!)
after her mother abandons them both. You can learn
more and read an excerpt from the book at Veronica's
web site. To me, Veronica is a great role model for
shaping one's own creative existence. I hope she will
inspire you to carve your own path as well.
Visit Veronica's Web Site »
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| FEATURE ARTICLE: Career Quest-What is Your Great Work? |
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I was blown away by HBO's production of "Angels in
America". The last lines, spoken by the character of
Prior Walter, still bring me to tears: "You are fabulous
creatures, each and every one. And I bless you: More
Life. The Great Work Begins." Recently a friend
forwarded a quote from "Angels" playwright Tony
Kushner in which he responds to the question of what is
the great work. He said, "At every moment in every
person's life there is work to be done, always work to
be done, some of it small, some of it Great. The Great
Work, in a sense, always has to do with healing the
world, changing the world, and, as a necessary
predicate to that, understanding the world. You rise
every morning aware that you are called to this work.
You won't live to see it finished. But if you can't hear it
calling, you aren't listening hard enough. It's always
calling, sometimes in a big voice, sometimes in a quiet
voice."
When people question their careers, I believe it's often
because they have this nagging notion that they're not
doing their great work. It's a double-edged sword--on
the one side, they are inspired to do more than what
they're doing, on the other side the mere concept of
"the great work" is overwhelming and often stuns
people into inaction. But what if you were to break up
the idea of "The Great Work" into small, bite-size
pieces? For instance, your great work doesn't have to
happen in your office. It can just as easily take place at
home in the way you raise your children, or at the place
where you volunteer on the weekends, or in the writing,
painting or acting you do when you're not at your 9-to-5
job. In other words, if you're listening for your calling
in only one place, you're less likely to hear it.
When clients come to me unhappy in their work, we
often look for ways to start doing new things without
leaving their current job. It gets them unstuck and it
takes away the pressure of worrying about a paycheck.
Plus they get to find out whether or not the problem is
really with the job or their life in general. In the
meantime, they get to "try out" what they love doing. If
it's truly meant to be, the efforts will turn into a paying
job in its own time.
While they do that, we also work on developing
gratitude to their job for financing their "great work".
It's a great way to begin your career change in
confidence. You can do the same. First, make a list of
reasons why you're grateful for your current job, even if
you strongly dislike it. Second, how can your job help
you find out what you want to do and how can you start
doing it now? Here's help: last year I wrote an article
about switching careers. Since the issue is still relevant
to so many, I've made it available on my web site as a
special career report. Download it, read it and get
yourself thinking about how you will change your work
situation in the coming weeks. I know it's hard to start
big projects in the summer, so I challenge you to at
least prepare now so you can get going in September.
That's your deadline. Stick to it. Come fall, your great
work begins.
Switching Careers Report »
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| Measuring Up: Free Assessments for You |
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Here's another service I'm offering on my site--free
assessments. These wonderful tools developed by Coach
U., where I received my training, can provide
remarkable insight into how you work, take care of
yourself and, yes, even how you love, behave and
communicate. They can also highlight areas in your
personal development you might like to work on,
perhaps with the guidance of a coach. So take your pick
and enjoy learning something new about yourself!
Copyright 2004 Sophfronia Scott. All rights
reserved.
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| Sophfronia's Novel Now Available! |
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"...a writer worth watching."
--People Magazine
"Scott will most assuredly be recognized for her superb
storytelling."
--Booklist Magazine
"The journey to the end is mesmerizing and the prose is
inviting. Ms. Scott has captured something unspoken in
her first novel. Both heart warming and heart
wrenching, All I Need To Get By is on a different literary
level." --Loose Leaves Book Review
"Lorain, Ohio, is familiar territory to readers of Toni
Morrison, but Sophfronia Scott makes it her own. "All I
Need to Get By" is a stunning debut, a story of family
and memory, and the stories we tell about both in order
to "get by." The novel is equal parts profundity, humor,
and grace, and its author promises to take a place
among the best writers of her generation." --Professor
Henry Louis Gates Jr., Harvard University
Order "All I Need to Get By"
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